Ethical analysis of polygamy legalization in Missouri

Polygamy

Should the state of Missouri legalize polygamy?

Comprising 114 counties, Missouri is a U.S. state located in mid-west of the country. The debate of whether or not legalize polygamy (i.e. one man marrying many women) is ethically evaluated here using ethical method and theories.

a) Spinoza Benedict

The ethical analysis of a situation, as Spinoza Benedict believes, involves only philosophical ideas and not religious beliefs (Introduction to Judaism, n.d.). He thinks that God equals nature thus there is balance in the nature and nobody's rights should be violated. Thus in his belief, the polygamy is like degrading woman and not balancing the man-woman equation. However, he does not answer whether a husband should divorce his beloved first wife to marry another woman for children since first wife is unable. Thus, Benedict, in his opinion negates the legalization of polygamy.

b) Ayn Rand

Rand believes that theoretically polygamy can be supported but practically it often ends up in dangerous relationships. Comparisons and jealousies make it hard and often unfair to be polygamous. So she believes polygamy is risky, thus it can be inferred that unconditional polygamy should not be allowed but it should be ensured that it is marriage of equal with equal and not a man marrying women who is offered inferior rights. Rights of both wives and the husband should be equal.

c) Jeremy Bentham

Jeremy Bentham has debated that polygamy is a damaging act for both the people and the society (Brahman, 2011). The polygamy has been considered crime in many countries. He says that polygamy was once such a big ethical crime as it was punishable by death. Thus Bentham would have strongly opposed the idea that polygamy should be legalized in the state of Missouri.

d) Immanuel Kant

Immanuel believes in monogamy and equality in marriage (Kant, n.d.). He says that without being equal, the marriage cannot survive. The man marrying a second woman is like taking few rights of the first woman to give them to the second one. Hence, the women become inferior to him. He believes that marriage is truly realized in monogamy only. The marriage naturally makes pairs and pair always has two in it not more or less. That pair consists of complementary members offering help, support, love, care and appreciation simultaneously.

e) Mummert

Mummert believe that not only wife and husband's relationship but also their relationship with children is affected as a result of polygamy. The wife and husband that live together with their children full time are more happy as well as satisfied that the families where the husband serves half of his time with one wife and her children and rest time with second wife and her children. Thus polygamy demands balance that is very hard to maintain since the rights of women and children are at risk of being compromised. Mummert would have therefore supported monogamy and opposed legalization of polygamy in Missouri.

Identify and apply student's personal ethical theory

Ethics holds that the rights of individuals should not be evaluated and every human being should be treated with justice and fairness. I believe that justice and fairness is a universal concept but it does not mean as simple as diving a bread into two equal halves to give one each to two persons (Ethics and Virtue, n.d). Justice and fairness would require penalizing a minor different than penalizing a major. Hence, no one size fits all.

In Missouri where there are 51.4% women and 48.6% men population, I believe not all the population would be in complete favor or complete opposition of legalization of polygamy. People like to have control on their lives and to plan things as they like. A couple will therefore love to be able to decide when to avail vacations, how and when to spend them, how many kids to plan for and which people to socialize with and which to avoid. The personality and choices of every person are unique thus it takes time developing compatibility among spouses.

I believe when there is a third party, a woman, whom the husband can intend to marry; the balance in the marriage is disturbed. I am not advocating that the balance is impossible to maintain but I do stand on the point that not everyone can maintain it. Human being is naturally emotionally dependent and likes to seek refuge in the love and care of the near ones. Now, when there are two wives, the husband has got two choices so it is challenging to decide which wife to take to party, to vacations and to official dinner. It is not possible to choose without having an upper hand over the wives and this will not make the husband and wives equal since he is in the decision making position and not the wives. Thus, restating my point, polygamy is challenging.

Now evaluating if polygamy should be legalized or not, I think that no one size fits all. Neither should all people be allowed to have multiple wives unconditionally nor should the needy be restricted for multiple marriages. There are situations where the husband needs to have more than one wives. These may include but are not limited to:

Unmet relationship needs with one wife

A sick wife who cannot take care of children 24/7

An infertile wife who is unable to become a biological mother

The husband has a traveling job/business hence lives at two or three different places remotely located thus needs a family at each one of these stations

Other than the last option, the rest are self-explaining. The last option does not mean that the husband should have 24 wives since he spends every 2 weeks at a different place. The idea is that if he moves between two or three places and lives there for more than a couple of months, he can be allowed to have a family there if and only if this is a routine lifestyle not just for a year.

Conclusion

The monogamy is the ideal state everybody wishes. Since there are not too many good examples of polygamy, people fear it. As far as I am concerned, I would not mind conditionally allowing it only to those people that biologically, emotionally, financially or circumstantially really need it hard. There should be some legal requirements fulfilled by the husband including wife's uninfluenced permission to marry other woman that can allow a man for polygamy.