Conformity and Two Kinds Amy Tan's Two Kinds is a story that, like some of her relationships in The Joy Luck Club, is concerned with the conflict and complexity within the relationship between mothers and daughters -- particularly those mothers who are first-generation immigrants, born in China before the Communist revolution and their American-born daughters who must choose which parts of traditional culture they will adhere to, and which they will reject in favor of their desire to conform to a new culture. In Two Kinds, the narrator is Jing-mei, who wishes with all her heart to be just a regular American "kid." Her mother, however, is overbearing and wants Jing-mei to become a musical prodigy so that she can compete with one of her friend's daughters. Jing-mei tells the store after two decades, but she still struggles in trying to understand her mother's viewpoint, motivations, and attitudes.

The idea of conformity comes early in this relationship. It is Suyuan Woo, the mother, who...

Suyan Woo would give tests or relate stores about children with fantastic abilities, but finally stopped when she saw Jing-mei's utter disinterest. This culminates in a recital in which Jing-mei does not play well, and a silent ride home. Jing-mei is thrilled, thinking she finally does not need to play the piano any longer, but the next day, her mother insists she practices. Jing-mei loses her temper and screams that she will never be the kind of daughter Suyan wants, to which her mother succinctly replies, "Only two kinds of daughters. Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind! Only one kind of daughter can live in this house. Obedient daughter." Jing-mei replies that she wishes she were dead like the other children, not knowing that in her earlier life, Suyuan Woo had children who died as babies. From that time on, Suyan Woo never pushed piano lessons again, but it was not until she was an adult that she realized some of…