Self-Concept Awareness Scenario One: You

Self-Concept Awareness

Scenario One: You are used to earning above average grades in your classes. You just received feedback on your first assignment in a new class and discover that you earned a C. How do you approach your instructor?

Positive response: I would approach the instructor and let him know I truly wanted to be successful in the class and was there to learn. I would ask what the expectations were of the assignment, and how the assignment I turned in failed to meet those expectations. I would let the instructor know that I would endeavor to meet the class standards.

Negative response: A nonproductive response would be to challenge the instructor, let him/her know that you expect better grades.

Scenario Two: Your boss just offered you a promotion. You are excited, but you realize the increased responsibility and longer hours will interfere with your social life, family commitments, and other outside obligations. What do you say to your boss?

Positive response: I would let my boss know that I am honored that he feels I am capable of performing in the new position and let him/her know how grateful I am to be considered. I would let the boss know that I wanted to do the best job possible for the organization and that I would need to consult with my family before I could accept due to the increased amount of time commitment. I would ask for a day to think it over.

Negative response: I see two possibilities, one you accept the position without consulting your family, or two you reject the position without consulting your family. In one case you please the boss in the other you don't, but in both cases you demonstrate a disregard for the wishes of your loved ones.

Scenario Three: A favorite relative tells you he or she is disappointed that you have decided not to continue the family tradition of pursuing a career in a particular field. How do you respond?

Positive response: I would acknowledge that the family tradition was something to be proud of and that I was proud of it as well. I would explain that my interests/passions lie in a different direction and hope that she would understand and support me in my effort to make the family proud.

Negative response: Tell her that it's my life, I will do as I please and to mind her own business.

Scenario Four: You just got a new haircut. A close friend says, "I love your new look. It compliments your eyes and makes you look so much younger!" How do you handle that compliment?