Kapasi sees Mrs. Das as a lonely housewife who could be a perfect companion to him in his own loneliness. He misses or ignores cues that she may not be interested in him for his own sake because, at some level, he wants her to be this companion. He sees many details about her, such as her bare legs and Americanized shirt and bag, but he passes over others, such as the way she dismisses her children's desires and her selfishness with her snack. Such unflattering details do not fit with his conception of her. Likewise, Mrs. Das wants Mr. Kapasi to become a confidante to her and solve her personal and marital difficulties. She views him as a father figure and helper and misses or ignores indications that he may not fit those roles. Mr. Kapasi is "flattered" (55) when Mrs. Das views his job with such interest. She is "unlike his wife" (55) in that she reminds him of "intellectual challenges" (55) and it does not take long for him to begin a romantic adventure in his mind about her. He wonders if the two are mismatched because he recognizes the sings of a bad married from his own experience. These include the "bickering, the indifference, the protracted silences" (55). He even becomes intoxicated as he remembers Mrs. Das saying the word romantic. He checks his appearance in the rearview...
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