This is marked with being loving while being responsive. This is however true only when they are able to manage but not in their response to the child's signals as pointed out by Cassidy (2000).
In adults
Several adults have been shown to be exhibiting this style and they are known to be in a constant quest to be accepted by others through the gaining of acceptance of other individuals in the community.
Fearful avoidant style
This is the last type of avoidance styles It comprises of highly negative individuals.They do have:
1. High anxiety
2. High avoidance
They also feel the following:
Unworthy
Unlovable
They view people negatively and regard them as either rejecting or untrustworthy.
Due to this, they usually avoid very close relationship and try to avoid being rejected at all costs. This group is made up of individuals who have been abused and neglected as pointed out by (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991).
The durability of the attachment styles
The durability in this case refers to the state of stability of the attachment styles. This has however been a subject of too much controversy and debate. The attachment theory postulates that after repeated experiences during an individual's childhood, they do while in infancy, develop a string of knowledge structures a concept that can also be referred to as an inner working model that acts as a representative of the various several interactions that the infant had while they were with their primary care giver.
The infant then learns of the fact that whenever their primary caregivers get responsive then they have an opportunity of counting on them as well as others should need be. On the other hand, in case the primary care givers are cold, unresponsive and inconsistent, then the child would soon learn to ignore or rather neglect their role in his or her life in regards to gaining comfort.
This model has for a long time been thought of as being persistent throughout the life of an individual and can be considered to act for them as some sort of a guide as illustrated by Fraley, (2002).
In order to support this model, we bring out the fact that adults generally do tend to be more attentive to situations that bring out their experiences and to information that is in congruence with their worldly expectations. This is called the "confirmation bias"
In order to illustrate this, we look at the study that was conducted by Simpson, Rholes, & Nelligan in 1992 that portrayed that people who have avoidant working models with a general view of others as being unreliable did also vies social scenarios as being ambiguous.
A study conducted by Roisman, Collins, Sroufe, & Egeland (2005) in order to explore if an infant's style of attachment could be predictive of their adult hood indicated that:
A secure mind state in regard to one;s romantic relationship and better of (high quality) romantic relationship is usually a result of a secured attachment relationship that took place in infancy.
In yet another study by Torgersen, Grova, & Sommerstand, (2007) whose research relied on the test results of hypothesis that purported that attachment in most adults is heavily influenced by certain genetic factors. This was done through a comparison of both monozygotic as well as dizygotic twins attachment styles.
Their result is was that both the environment and the genes have a profound influence on attachment
Recent theories
Several recent theories dispute this notion. They do propose however that the durability of a certain style is a functions of the stability of an individual's environment.
This can be illustrated with a consideration of the experiences of new relationships and formation of new attachments both of which can bring about positive influence on an individual's working model.
It is worth noting that the attachment theory is very crucial in the explanation of an individual's interpersonal relationship in a lifetime. The four proposed attachments styles:
Secure
Preoccupied
Dismissing and Fearful avoidant
Are all crucial in the explanation of an individual's interpersonal relationship. It is important to note that the durability of attachment has been questioned and more research is going on this.
In the recent past attachment researchers have proven that attachment status in the initial year of life has a strong prediction of the development throughout an individual's the life. Main and Cassidy (1988) came up with a system for classifying the attachment at six years of age on the...
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