I don't know what's wrong.
W: Well, fear can make one uneasy and act differently from what one is used to. Do you think that there was something around you, a situation a symbol a person that made you feel even more fearful?
I wanted to know what kind of situations made her fearful or uneasy
I had an idea that perhaps what made her fearful was the possibility of loneliness for life.
C: I really have no idea & #8230; there just seems to be a lot more for me to do than the people around me and it's just that I can't seem to bring myself up to where there are. I don't know if I ever will, you know.
W: What is it that the people around you are surpassing in?
Tuning in Please let it not be below par academics! That's the only positive she has in her life right now!
C: Well, at work, It seems like I'm stuck, you know. I've been doing the same chores for the last 6 months, haven't gotten any additional responsibilities. Whereas this guy who got hired 3 months ago has already been working on a ton of more responsibilities than me.
W: Sometimes it isn't the number of responsibilities you are given but the nature that decides what your worth is. What are you asked to take of most frequently?
Reaching for client's feedback and self-analysis of a disturbing situation
I have to get her to look at the positives here
C: You know I work at diner! Sometimes I feel like I only got the job because of my cousin & #8230; yea I normally get to work the register but mostly the karaoke program. Karaoke is a major part of the diner, it's what its famous for!
W: It seems to me like the chores you're asked to do make or break the diner!
What do you think about your responsibilities?
Tuning in Come on! Determine you self-worth here!
C: Well yeah, I guess! I mean yeah, they are important! No one juts trysts anyone with money or their marketing like that & #8230; I feel so paranoid about making a mistake and messing everything and losing what I have as a responsibility that sometimes I wish I didn't have such a huge part to play!
Don't cry! Please don't cry!
W: I know that fear of losing something as consistent as that can be fearful! But I know you and your level of dedication to everything you do! Sometimes it annoys me honestly (hint at humor)! Whatever you put your name against, you always make sure you never giver less than your hundred percent! I think that is why the nature of the responsibilities entrusted on you is so huge!
Empathy
I wish she would see how significant her input is
C: You really think so?
W: Of course I do! I'm honestly surprised that you don't.
Practicing encouragement
Breathe in, breath out
C: (Long Pause) Thanks!
W: Thank me when you get the chore to do the diner's specials announcements (wink)
Reassurance
Come on! Smile!
C: (Smiling) actually the manager asked me to take over that from next month, as Jenna's leaving & #8230; (Pauses while I smile at her) & #8230; yeah I know what you mean now when you talk about the nature of responsibilities! It's probably why the nature of fear is so huge as well!
W: Take the good with the bad right!
Analyzing situation's pros and cons
She's finally come around!
C: Yeah! That's the best I can get or hope to get & #8230; certainly better than what I've had to deal with from a year ago! (sheepish smile)
Overall sense about your work as indicated by this process recording:
Overall, I thought I did a good job in providing the client with the necessary encouragement she needed and reassuring her about the positives of the situations she was in. I was able to offer supportive counseling and allow her to form a positive conclusion on her own.
Specific questions for supervision:
What could I have done to be more effective in my delivery of service availability?
Ideas about next actions or interventions or follow-up that might be indicated:
How are you handling the added responsibility of specials announcement?
The most important stages are the fourth and fifth ones because this is where the actual behavioral change occurs. The fourth stage of action requires the individual to apply all strategies introduced...
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