What are some factors that can cause Infidelity? How does these factors typically cause infidelity? Infidelity is both a cause of marital breakdown and an effect thereof (Previti & Amato, 2004). The causes of infidelity are as innumerable as people themselves. Differential attitudes and outlooks on marriage, issues related to self-concept and self-esteem, perceptions of the marital contract itself and gender roles, and cultural variables can also play into the decision to act on the urge to commit infidelity. When infidelity is viewed through a multifaceted lens that takes into account systemic variables, counselors are in a far better position of being able to help clients working through their infidelity issues: whether they have been acted on yet or not, whether they have been disclosed or not, or whether or not they are precipitating a marital breakdown.

Theoretical viewpoints range from biological to the pathological, with some evidence suggesting that Axis II personality disorders are also a strong factor precipitating marital infidelity (Bagarozzi, 2008). The factors that may also cause infidelity include a breakdown in marital communication, a lack of mutual respect, and even demographic variables including those related to culture and worldview (Bagarozzi, 2008). Unhappiness and overall dissatisfaction, and a devaluation of the normative...

Whatever the cluster of factors that interact to cause the underlying motivation for the behavior, infidelity can become an insurmountable barrier and is one of the family and marriage therapist’s greatest challenges.
What are the ramifications of infidelity?

Even couples committed to the marriage may experience diminished satisfaction in the relationship following infidelity. Trust is eroded, as is the willingness to work through the overarching problems that could have led to the infidelity in the first place. For example, if the infidelity occurred because one of the individuals struggled with feelings of neglect or low self-esteem, that person may have sought personal satisfaction and gratification through an extramarital affiar. If the affair delivered the desired emotional response, that person might opt to leave the marriage entirely. Ramifications of infidelity can be the most poignant and extreme for individuals with psychological disorders. Therefore, counselors should apply astute diagnostic criteria to help clients with Axis I mood or anxiety disorders that might exacerbate reactions to a partner’s infidelity, or who may also have Axis II personality disorders. Various psychiatric conditions may also predispose some clients towards…