Throughout her life, Little Chief watches over her, protects her, and stands up for her. He is a good brother, and he also shows her what to look for in a good man, just as her stepfather does. They act as role models so she knows what to look for in a husband.
Another very important relationship in the book is her relationship with Rainbow, her stepfather. He honors her often and never treats her like a stepchild. He is always kind to her, and because of his honor and his own respect in the community, she becomes a leading and respected member of the tribe. Other men might not have treated her as well or honored her so highly, so this is an extremely significant relationship for her throughout her life.
Waterlily is honored with a "hunka" ceremony, honoring her as a beloved child of Rainbow. Since Waterlily is not Rainbow's natural daughter, this is a great honor, which is why so much detail and effort goes into the celebration, from her magnificent dress to the feast served after the ceremony is complete. The author writes, "But the "hunka" obligation had been laid on her and it was a compelling thing. Its reward was high in prestige. The hairline stripes of red which she was thereafter privileged to wear were a sign of that" (Deloria 78). Thus, the ceremony is a great honor, but it is also an obligation that will carry into the future. In our society, there is little honoring of children; in fact, even a formal adoption may not be celebrated as heartily as Waterlily's "hunka" ceremony. Society today tends to ignore the youngest...
This honors his prowess as a hunter, but also recognizes his journey toward manhood and responsibility. In our culture, Bar Mitzvahs, Quinceneras, and sweet sixteen parties are similar celebrations, but they celebrate reaching a certain age, rather than actually maturing to the point of being able to provide food for the table. The Sioux system of honoring recognizes accomplishments that will matter later in life, while modern society tends to put more emphasis on reaching a certain age, rather than accomplishing life skills.
Another honor early is the book is the way the children honor the storyteller, Woyaka. They honor him by calling him "grandfather," which makes him a part of their family, and take him gifts of moccasins and such. Again, the Sioux are much more appreciative of age in their society, and of someone with special skills, such as storytelling.
This is an excellent look into Sioux, life, and it would be a good choice for any historian or cultural anthropologist looking for an intimate glimpse into how the Sioux lived, especially Sioux women. It showcases their hopes and dreams, along with the hard work that came with camp life.
References
Deloria, Ella Cara. Waterlily. Lincoln: University of Nebraska Press, 1988.
