Community Nursing
While developing classes and teaching classes to expectant mothers, the community nurse in this paper is made aware of the fact that many women in the class are over 30 years of age and are going through their first pregnancy. In addition, some (if not many) of the attendees are having a struggle over their commitments to their careers because they would like to stay home and raise the child rather than use day care and let someone else care for their very young child. What kind of class would be appropriate to relate to those concerns? This paper delves into that topic and other issues regarding the choices that a new mother has available.
The Literature on Stay-at-Home Mothers vs. Continuing One's Career
Understanding the Transition from Career to Motherhood
In The American Journal of Family Therapy the authors suggest that there has not been sufficient research done on "fulltime motherhood" (stay-at-home mothers); and much of the existing research focuses on the needs of the child rather than the needs and future of the mother (Vejar, et al., 2006, 17). The fact that research tends to zero in on the child's growth "…detracts attention from the developmental strides embarked upon by the mother" (Vejar, 18). Hence, there is a need to launch into greater research on the mother's challenges in this genre.
This article uses qualitative research based on a study of four women, and it points out that there have been huge expectations "…placed on women" throughout the 20th century, it has come down to a matter of women having to juggle their responsibilities (Vejar, 18). Those responsibilities include keeping up with household responsibilities (cooking, cleaning, etc.), and simultaneously "juggling the demands of career pursuits" (Vejar, 18). There is no doubt that there are substantial benefits a mother receives from having a career and being employed; a woman's "…mental, physical, and relational well-being" are all enhanced when she is able to continue working (Vejar, 18).
Vejar and colleagues interviewed four women (ages 31 to 34) for this research paper; each of the four had achieved at least a bachelor's degree and had been working in a position that was "…professional, educational, or managerial" prior to the delivery of a child (19). But during the interview process, all four women were stay-at-home moms, where they lived with husbands and at least one biological child. The questionnaire covered: a) their "sense of self"; b) their familial influences; c) their philosophies on parenting and childhood; d) their support systems and personality descriptions; e) their personal needs and their families' personal needs; f) media influences on working vs. fulltime mothers; g) negatives and positives of working and raising a child; h) how the women see the future for their families; and i) advice they share with "potential fulltime mothers" (Vejar, 20).
Using a SAHM (Stay-at-home-mothers) model (in three stages) for this research, the authors learned that each of the four full-time mothers observed "traditional value structures" while their husbands provided the incomes (SAHM Stage 1). All four had "tidy households," disciplined lifestyles, well-thought-out daily routines and husbands that provided "both emotional and financial support" towards their wives decision to become fulltime mothers (Vejar, 24).
In SAHM Stage II the authors' research indicated that all four women had "traditional values" and believed that their roles as mothers would help their children grow up to be "…happy, healthy members of society" (Vejar, 25). Those traditional values offered "comfort and support" to the women, and each woman was found to be reliant on "…her inborn sense of structure as she compartmentalized her day" to be certain all the important issues relating to her family were completed. In SAHM Stage III has to do with the four mothers' future roles when the children grow older; also, if a woman had a good experience in SAHM I and II, she enters Phase III in a positive way, Vejar continues (25). The conclusion reached by the authors is that fulltime motherhood is a role that should not be viewed "…with doubt or disregard"; in addition, the research reveals that since women tend to go though "…extensive preparation for obstacles and rewards" that are linked to "other life roles," such as being a mother rather than a professional in an office (Vejar, 28).
The Motherhood Career Slide
An article in Nursing Standard asserts that was based on quantitative findings shows that in terms of gender and nursing career progression,...
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