Much later, my father explained the difference between rational optimism and rationalization and suggested to me that the former is probably more healthy psychologically than the latter. According to him, both achieve the same short-term benefit, but rationalization is associated with long-term consequences in the nature of clinical depression and mood swings. He explained that people who rationalize purposely avoid acknowledging disappointments and that this sort of repression usually results in negativity that is always expressed later, and often in manners that are far removed from their original cause. I recognized in friends and acquaintances what my father explained and learned to recognize the value of "making lemonade" as a conscious and purposeful decision to salvage disappointments rather than as a subconscious rationalization.
Empathy:
It is more difficult for me to identify whether natural predisposition or environmental influences and modeled behavior is more responsible for the fact that I seem to have always exhibited a high degree of empathy. I always remember caring about the well-being of animals, including stuffed animals and balloons before the age where I learned that the latter where inanimate objects. Prior to that, I remember being moved to tears over "sick" balloons and my older brother once secured a chocolate ransom from me by threatening to hurt a stuffed bear. I also recall being very concerned whenever someone else sustained an injury or acquired an illness and I always did my best to comfort family members who were sick.
My mother exhibits the same behavior and I specifically recall her modeling...
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