Marriage couple and family counseling

Length:  8 pages (2660 words) | Sources:  12  | Subject:  Counseling | Type: Research Paper | Paper: #79798366 | Author:  

Note: Essay below may appear distorted but all corresponding word document files will contain proper formatting

Excerpt from Research Paper:

The next step is ritualization where the addict performs his own special routines that intensify the preoccupation increasing arousal and excitement. The third step is the manifestation of the compulsive sexual behavior; this is the culmination of preoccupation and the ritualization. Sexual addicts do not have the capability to control or stop this behavior. The final step is despair where the sexual addict experiences profound hopelessness about their actions and their inability to control their behavior.

Typically it takes a major crisis where the consequences are so great, or the pain is so bad, that an addict must come to terms with his or her addiction. Carnes (1983) lists some of these events: when the squad car pulls into the driveway and you know why they've come, when you break off yet another relationship you never wanted to be in, when your spouse announces the end of your marriage because of the latest discovery, when your daughter's friend sees your photo in the mug shots at the police station and no one in your family knew, when the school councilor calls to inform you that your daughter does not want to come home because, after eight years, she no longer wants to be sexual, and you are being reported to child protection, when you have a car accident while exposing yourself. The consequences for the addict his or her spouse, and his family are devastating.

Implications

Bird (July, 2006) acknowledges there are differences in the experiences of the sexual addict across gender and sexual orientation, yet, by and large, the addictive experience appears far more similar than different. Addicts continue to engage in sexual behaviors despite negative consequences to their personal life and relationships. Even though addicts experienced shame and isolation as a result of their behavior they were unable to cease them. In order to avoid further negative consequences, sexual addicts endeavor to hide their behavior from their spouses.

Partners report a feeling that something is wrong generally and feeling of distance in their relationship with their addicted partner, but are unable to identify what is causing those feelings.…[continue]



Cite this Essay

APA Citation

"Marriage Couple And Family Counseling" (2010, June 24) Retrieved November 22, 2014, from http://www.paperdue.com/essay/marriage-couple-and-family-counseling-10125

MLA Citation

"Marriage Couple And Family Counseling" 24 June 2010. Web.22 November. 2014. <http://www.paperdue.com/essay/marriage-couple-and-family-counseling-10125>

CHICAGO Citation

"Marriage Couple And Family Counseling", 24 June 2010, Accessed.22 November. 2014, http://www.paperdue.com/essay/marriage-couple-and-family-counseling-10125