This reflection paper explores the personal and cultural identity of a Kuwaiti engineering student studying in the United States. Drawing on family history rooted in the Ottoman era, the author examines the interplay between tradition and modernity, religious conservatism and secular progressivism, and national belonging and global citizenship. The paper considers how Kuwait's oil wealth transformed its demographics and social fabric, how family members have navigated competing identities across different countries, and how globalization simultaneously expands and complicates one's sense of self. The author ultimately argues that while individual agency matters, the past continues to shape values, beliefs, and goals in ways the American Dream narrative tends to overlook.
Having never asked my grandparents directly about our ancestry, there are few details I know about my family genealogy. I am from Kuwait, a country that has seen more than its fair share of changes over the past several generations. We are no strangers to colonization and misrule. I imagine that my grandparents would have had many troubling memories. Unlike many Kuwaiti people who have recently moved to the area because of the oil business, my family's roots go back at least to Ottoman times. We have seen our country grow and change. While more wealth is generated now, the distribution of that wealth is not as equitable as it should be. One of the reasons I decided to study in the United States was the opportunity to expand my career options and not be completely dependent on the existing companies and jobs available in the Gulf region.
An engineering student like me has the opportunity to apply what I learn in school to a rewarding career helping my own country develop its infrastructure more fully. In this sense, there are both "push" and "pull" elements in my narrative. No matter where I live, my story will always include a chapter that makes me part of the American experience. I am now fusing multiple identities — as a Kuwaiti, as an American student, and as a citizen of the world. Globalization is making national boundaries less important.
This blurring of national boundaries makes it tempting to forget who we are and where we come from, and it is important to explore our family background because of that. My family is both conservative and progressive. Many members have been religious scholars, and a few have even served as imams. Other family members have studied in the United Kingdom and lived entirely secular lives. With such a diverse family background, I am relatively free to explore my own identity and discover my place in the world. As scholars of oral history have noted, understanding where we come from is essential to understanding who we are (Platt).
"Oil wealth's impact on Kuwaiti demographics and lifestyle"
"Critique of the American Dream and role of the past"
Platt, Lyman D. "The Importance of Oral Histories." Genealogy.com. Retrieved online:
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