Reaction Beautiful Boy Essay

Beautiful Boy Reaction to Part I and Part II: Beautiful Boy

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According to David Sheff's memoir of his son's addiction entitled Beautiful Boy, "I tried everything I could to prevent my son's fall into meth addiction. It would have been no easier to have seen him strung out on heroin or cocaine, but as every parent of a meth addict comes to learn, this drug has a unique, horrific quality…He was a trailblazer with meth, too, addicted years before politicians denounced the drug as the worst yet to hit the nation. In the United States, at least twelve million people have tried meth, and it is estimated that more than one and a half million are addicted to it" (Sheff 2008:9-10). From his father's perspective, his son was an angelic child who was given every advantage. Nic's addiction was inexplicable to Shaffer, yet also an extension of his son's generous and gregarious personality. Nic was always a sensation-seeker: a leader and a trailblazer with precocious intelligence. He was praised by coaches and teachers alike and even recruited to appear in a commercial as a kindergartener (Sheff 2008:34). This same boldness in the face of conventional wisdom, however, also caused Nic to deny the wise advice of others to stay off drugs. And ironically, while it was some of the 'good' characteristics within Nic that drove him to experiment, the drug turned him into a liar who hurt the people who cared about him the most like his father. His father sees his son as a stranger when he is on drugs -- instead of intelligent and witty, Nic becomes sullen, angry, and combative.

Nic's addition took over this father's life: his father found himself constantly waiting up for his son at night,...

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"I became addicted to my child's addiction" (Sheff 2008:15). Nic even used going to AA meetings as an excuse to leave the house unsupervised and seek out drugs. Yet Sheff stresses that Nic is not fundamentally a 'bad' person nor was the family unusually dysfunctional. Yes, Sheff did divorce his wife and there were certain minor traumas, but nothing on the level to justify the suffering his son eventually inflicted upon himself. Almost obsessively, Sheff ruminates over Nic's past: Nic's progressive school, the loving attention both parents gave to the child, his determination to create a sense of normalcy for the boy while shuttling between two homes. There was some conflict between Nic and his stepmother, but nothing particularly serious -- or so it seemed on the surface.
Sheff also chronicles his own history with drugs in Part I of the memoir. As well as setting up a possibly 'too perfect' scenario of family life that was inevitably destined to go wrong, Sheff admits that he too experimented with drugs. In another irony, he thought that his personal experiences and warnings would protect his child from making the same mistakes, versus Sheff's contempt of his rather 'square' and puritanical parents. "Maybe I…

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Sheff, D. (2010). Beautiful boy. New York: Houghton Mifflin Co., 2008.


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