1. What are the barriers that keep men from seeking counseling or therapy? What can break those barriers?
One of the barriers that keeps men from seeking counseling is masculinity itself. Sometimes referred to as toxic masculinity, this aspect of being a man involves the ego and the need for the man to feel that he is strong, capable of figuring out his own problems, and able to overcome adversity through resilience. From an early age, boys go through rituals that lead up to their coming of age moment, that defining moment when they believe that they have entered into manhood. To admit in one’s adulthood that he is in need of counseling can almost seem like a shock to one’s sense of masculinity (Kupers, 2005).
Not all men are going to be susceptible to this shock, but those who are will need support and understanding if they are to be assisted in overcoming their own sense of toughness so as to get the help in therapy that they need. Kupers (2005) recommends that counselors honor the resistance that men put up and do not disrespect it for it is a legitimate and valid part of masculinity. At the same time, a discussion of confidentiality, a display of empathy, and a willingness to advocate on the part of the man can help to overcome resistance (Kupers, 2005).
Reference: Kupers, T. A. (2005). Toxic masculinity as a barrier to mental health treatment in prison. Journal of clinical psychology, 61(6), 713-724.
2. Do women and men differ in levels of self-esteem and self-confidence?
The research suggests that men and women do have different levels of self-esteem and self-confidence, particularly in the West (American Psychological Association, 2016). But this may also have something to do with the ways in which esteem is generated in the West today. Traditionally, men and women occupied different spheres of influence, and their lives to different shapes—men worked in the world, while women tended to the domestic sphere: the house, the children, the cooking, and so on. When Betty Friedan produced her Feminist work The Feminine Mystique, it launched a new wave in the Feminist movement. Women became convinced that they needed to be working alongside the men in the world, that the domestic sphere was tantamount to slavery, that having children was not fulfilling, and that the family was stifling. Women thus sought fulfillment doing the same thing their men counterparts were doing. Yet, as the American Psychological Association (2016) points out, women have not found the expected confidence and esteem they were led to believe they would find. Is this because their natures and emotional needs and talents have been...
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